10 KEYS TO BE A SUCCESS
IN YOUTH AGE
[ SOFTSKILL ]
Disusun oleh:
RIFQI RAMADHAN
17213684
1EA22
UNIVERSITAS GUNADARMA
2014
1. Do What You Love
and Love What You Do
Each man was given a choice. However, you do not ever feel
there is no choice and have to do something you do not like? It's hard to make
the best offer. Is not it easier to get the best results when we do something we
like?
In the gym, for example, you do not like to play football
sementera dibbandingkan will perform better than you could be your friend if
you feel about football changed. Try starting to like the sport, you
automatically will train harder. The result? Guns have asked, would have more
leverage.
In essence, you will make every effort to be better if you
already love the things you do. When you do something you love, passion present
within. Passion was the X factor that gives you energy to do more so that you
will not stop just because there are obstacles. When the passion has come and
you will rise again, and then try again until you succeed as much as it might
not. Lack of passion is often a gap between failure and success. Passion that
is within you is the handle to the right direction, success.
2. Be grateful
All the successful people I know tell me that they are
grateful for all that they have, they have done, and that they went through. In
essence, they are happy with their lives.
You will not be happy, if you are not aware, do not want, and
have not been able to be grateful with whatever you've got these greedy.
If you do not realize that gratitude is important, not want,
and have not been able to be grateful for the things "small" that you
have today, and the new plan will be thankful kalu Nantu you've had success,
trust me, your life will not be happy. And, chances are, your daily life will
be full of disappointments, negative thingking, that all of this will take you
further and further away from the meaning of success.
First, try this second realize that you should thankful
because you're still alive! You still have spirit. If you are not able to be
sensitive and be grateful for the things "small" above, you will not
be happy. Think you will be filled with things that are negative. Well, if you
have your mind filled with things like that, already "there is no
place" for you to think about positive things. You've wasted energy into
negative things earlier.
3. Healthy Life
Everyone wants to be successful, so what? So they are happy.
Is imagined, can buy this, buy that, go around the world, and so on.
And, we do usually is focused on our work. We often forget is
a matter of health. Moreover, you would think that a young, healthy me. No need
to exercise, sleep a night, waking up in the morning still can. Rarely sick and
so on. That's because your metabolism is still high and the body is still good
durability. But ....
If you do not constantly maintain a lifestyle, not concerned
with your health, trust me, over time your body durability also will inevitably
decline and eventually you will get sick. Maybe you also think, it is also just
a pain cold cough. No big deal. Hmmm ... if you're sick, even though it was
just a cough or runny nose wrote, do not believe that you will definitely
disturbed konseptrasi? It would be very difficult to be able to concentrate
fully, try as much as possible, when we are sick, whatever the type of illness.
From now on, try to adopt a healthy lifestyle: keep food,
adequate rest, and exercise regularly. To get started, may not be easy ... but,
if it is used, everything will be as automatic, trust me!
4. Integrity
I am sure you must have heard the saying "dead elephant
ivory leaves, tiger striped matu leave". Surely not the treasure that you
should worry about when he died, but a good name. "What do we want others
to keep remembering us after death?"
In other words. You must know what you want. If you already
know the wishes seek to manifest. If you want to be remembered as a generous
and, yes, from now try to always give donations to those in need. If you want
to be remembered friendly to anyone, regardless of religion, race, ethnicity,
and class. And so on.
In general, what we want is the good stuff, right? Therefore,
in performing any actions to achieve these desires, you should be aware of
having integrity. If you have integrity, meaning that you will do everything
honestly and consistently.
5. Dream and Think Big
One of the differences between the regular and successful
people, ordinary people are afraid to fail. They fear can not achieve dreams
that they make only small dreams. This they did to ensure that the dream can be
achieved easily, without susaha hard. Lazy. Coward.
Since childhood, I've had the urge to know the things that I
want. My dream: to be successful in a career. I want to be more successful than
my father. I want to be the number one in big companies. When I was a teenager,
I tigak know what kind of education will I get, and what would be my first job
out of college later. But, I knew that I had ic is the only dream BIG.
When you start to think BIG, you need to make a plan in
writing. "As long as there are goals to be achieved, all can be
achieved," said Paul Arden, It's okay if it has recana initial steps are
small for such measures was still in the right path, the path that will take
you to dream BIG have you set: success.
6. Confidence
Have big dreams it should be coupled with high confidence. As
an illustration, if you have a melodious voice, coupled with big dreams and
high confidence, a chance you could win a contest to sing the national or
international could even be bigger than kalu you have a lovely voice and great
inppianm, but not confident.
When you've got big dreams, you also have to have a high
confidence. That way, when you try as much as possible and have the commitment
to achieve it, you will succeed. Diriliah believe the things you can achieve.
Actually, the confidence that you have today is the result of
things that you get from childhood, from the values in the family, formal education, and association with friends.
They contribute greatly to the value of your self-esteem.
7. On Time
On time is very important, both in the workplace and business
world. Not only that, the right time also plays an important role in all
aspects of life because they, unwittingly, on time is one of our respect to
self and others.
Actually, come on time is something that's easy. All you have
to do first is to realize that being on time is important. Second, calculate
the exact hour drive, if necessary, to include elements of congestion in them.
You must know how to create a schedule that makes sense. For
example, if you live in a city full of traffic jams, meaning dibtuhkan about an
hour to travel to other areas in the city. And, perhaps, you give about a
two-hour interval between the completion time of the first appointment and a
second appointment.
8. Open Minded
In this life nothing is certain as mathematics, physics, and
chemistry. It could be that you plan A, but the results are not absolute thing
B. "difficult" for predictable and known with certainty by humans.
Once jga with the idea. There is no absolute idea. When we talk about an idea
or view, we have to realize that the idea can be seen from all sides, depending
on the viewpoint where we see it.
To have an open mind, it is not hard to do. All you have to
do is listen, listen to all the ideas, views, also criticism given to you. At
the time of hearing other people's opinions, do not begin to prepare an answer
or your eyes. Try to objectively analyze these opinions.
There is an idea that will bring positive results, but no jug
aide that will bring negative results. Analyze the idea is menyuluruh, from AZ.
Do not take a decision too quickly or view, especially reject the idea. Dispose
of the "separation wall" that is between you and the idea.
9. Respect
We can not force others to respect us. The respect we will
get automatically, without us having to demand it. Many ways to get the respect
that we desire.
Respect other people. It is a very simple theory, and maybe
you've heard it. If you respect others, you are honored by the opportunity
others will become larger. If you do not respect others, of course they will
not respect you as well. That's so simple and has become common sense.
Respect for other people does not mean just listen or be
polite to the person. More than that, you should know to whom you are speaking
and who you are facing? You need to know the origin of the person. It would be
better if, before meeting someone, you have to find out all sorts of
information about the person.
10. Never Give Up
Advice that can make you closer to the success that you have
always dreamed of. When all things are not by your side, you are confronted by
two choices. Stop, sad, mengangis, lament the fate, then say say goodbye to the
dream. Or ... you beridir strapping and stepped back with certainty to achieve
their dreams. It would be better if when it rose again, you do not just
"run", but "ran" to the finish line, targets have you set
from the beginning.
Inngin message that I have presented here is: never take no
as an aswer-never received a rejection for granted. Perhaps, you've just
received a rejection. Perhaps, you've heard people say that if rejected, try
again for the second time. If you get a second rejection, try again for the
third time. The point is, do not ever give up!
Nothing in this world can not if you are constantly trying.
So, go ahead and prove that you can!
"Success comes from failure after failure without losing
enthusiasm."-Winston Chruchill
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